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For quite a long time now, it seems my wife and I have not had our own bed. Starting with my oldest, when she was just getting into her own “big girl” bed, she would join us in our bed at night. Made for a long night some days, with a wiggly toddler in the bed. We ended up putting a “princess bed” on the floor that she slept in until she got tired of that and then stayed in her own bed. That worked for her and my older son, but hasn’t worked out as well for my younger daughter and now my youngest son.
Amelia, my youngest is the one with a kidney transplant. She has been very clingy since the transplant, and she doesn’t do too bad staying in a “princess bed” or on the recliner. My youngest son however…… He doesn’t want to stay anywhere, except our bed. He says his bed is “itchy”. at least he has a reason. We are trying to get him into his own special bed or the recliner, but it is a fight. He likes “mommy’s bed”. It wouldn’t be too bad, except that he likes to kick and push and keeps us from sleeping well.
Hopefully, this is a phase that is wearing out. Last night, he managed to stay in his own bed. That is either a happy coincidence, or the start of something good. Has anyone else had this problem? Is this just my problem? Anyone?
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As you know by now, my wife and I welcomed number 4 into our family 2 weeks ago. It has been wild this week as he has only been home for this week. We have been trying to get him trained to sleep at night, as well as remember what it is like to raise an infant.
My youngest daughter is now 4 and I kind of took for granted the independent and “grown up” ways of a 4 year old, not to mention 7 and 10. I have been trying to remember how to be the complete caregiver to an infant. Strangely, it is not difficult to handle 4 kids when the older ones are so helpful.
Here is the rub, I wouldn’t trade this experience for anything. We have always wanted 4 kids and now we have been blessed with 2 boys and 2 girls. Our family is now complete. While I wouldn’t trade this experience I am glad we are finished having our family and getting ready for the next step in our lives.
Family is very important. Family is the only thing that will endure any other trial or hardship. As you go into this weekend remember your family. If you have kids, do something with them that doesn’t include electricity. Go play baseball, go fishing, read them a story. Just spend time doing something that isn’t distracting.
If you don’t have kids, do something without electricity with your significant other. Or even go by yourself. Get away from the computer, the television and all of it. Go be with your family.
Have a great weekend folks.
This title proves prophetic today. I had forgotten just how much an infant forces you to slow down certain things.
Over the past 2 weeks I have had to slow down many times, with my writing and housework and yard work. I have watched more movies and tv shows in the last 2 weeks than I have in the past 6 months when I started this whole online venture.
I have been writing about unplugging the past few days and I think that he has a lot to do with this. Now, if you have read any of this blog in the past, you know that my family is very important to me. I love doing things with my kids and I really am excited to watch them grow and develop.
It is so much fun to see them grow and change through all of the ages. It is fun to see their tastes in music and movies change and mature as they grow. It is also fun to see what the new one will choose when he can control what to watch. My 4 year old is finally gtting into some of her own things and not just copying her older sister. My son has always kind of done his own thing, it will be interesting to see if my new son follows him or does something totally new.
I think it has been good for all of us to just slow down. It has been good for me to get off of the computer and just hold the baby for a couple of hours at a time. These are the times you can’t get back if you miss them. This is exactly why I am a dad.
Being a Stay At Home Dad allows me to see all of these milestones. These 4 kids I own make me want to work my butt off and be able to stay home with them and all of the things that they accomplish. I can’t recommend it highly enough.
Have a great weekend! We get to watch fireworks tomorrow!
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Hello folks. So it is tax time again and many of you will be cursing the IRS very soon, if you have not done so already. For myself, we did fairly well with a decent sized refund. A good chunk of that we spent redoing our kitchen, but some we spent on one of those fancy GPS units. I wanted one that would be good for hunting and the outdoors, and then we got into a new hobby. Geocaching. It is a kick in the pants frankly. You use your fancy GPS and the Geocaching.com website to go and find small plastic things to write your name on.
It is a great treasure hunt and sometimes there are prizes to trade for in the cache. It is a great family friendly way for us to get out into the outdoors and running around. My kids love it and so do I.