Oddities, Profundities, Profanities and Dad Stuff

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Podcast Thursday: Number 20!

Hey guys,  it kind of shocked me to see that I have 20 podcasts on here now.  I hope that you are getting some value or at least entertainment out of them.  I like to make them for you.  Still don’t look for video anytime soon, I will stick to being a podcaster and a blogger and entrepreneur, webmaster, tech guy, marketer, diaper changer, etc.

Enjoy the Weekend, I want to know what you went out and did!  The comments section is dusty and ill used as of late!

-Justin

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Here’s to over-planning and success!

Have you ever hosted a party?  Did you over plan the whole thing and end up with stuff not being done (games) and tons of food not being eaten?  Which is worse, having too much food to dispose of later or, not having enough food?

Cub Scouting

Cub Scouting (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

This past week we had our Cub Scout Blue and Gold banquet.  Ostensibly, it is to celebrate the birthday of Cub Scouting, but it is a lot of fun for the kids.  We had skits and games as well as dinner.  Overall, it wasn’t bad, except for the food.  We ended up with about double the food we needed.  It is hard to plan on what people are going to eat, or not eat.

We told everyone that it was dinner, yet some people ate before they came.  Some didn’t want to eat hot dogs.  Some didn’t want to eat anything but cake.  We had just enough games, and, after earlier editing, just enough skits.

It is hard to plan a big gathering, is what I am getting at.  I am sure people would have been shaking their heads and wanting more food if we didn’t have so much.  What is better?  More or Less?  People were already annoyed that the ketchup packets that the church had for us were fermenting.  (upon further review, they were 2+ years old)  But we had mustard and relish so screw them.

Ultimately, we have too look at the end of the party and gauge whether or not people had a good time.  Extra food or not, People had a good time.  They knew who we were as leaders.  It was much better than last year, much more interactive and less awkward.

So what about it?  Let me know.

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Flight of the Antidepressants

 

Chemical structure of citalopram.

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Have you ever came up with a good title and then had to figure out what to do with it?  Yea, this post is like that.  Of course, it is somewhat based in my reality.

Brain chemicals are to blame here.  Brain chemicals and the balance between all of them.  Some say it is a fight we could never win, but with modern pharmaceuticals, anything is possible.  Years ago I had a problem with depression.  Some time, a few changes and Prozac helped.  Years went by and I was fine.  Then, back in 2010 I started to recognize some of the same symptoms of that depression again.  Long time readers of this blog may have noticed the sharp decline in this fine piece of work over that summer.

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My Brain Hurts! Free Thought is Hard.

This is another picture that I have had for quite some time.  It makes me laugh every time I see it.

Thinking for yourself is hard.  It is hard when you have been conditioned to do what the boss (parents) says since you could pay attention.  Parents, teachers and employers want you do do what you are told and get the assignment/chore/job done correctly; someone elses way.  For jobs it needs to be done this way lest you get fired.

Sometimes questions come up.  It should be your obligation to look at both sides of the question and decide which course you should take.  You can agree with the question or you could not agree, just be prepared to back it up one way or another.  You don’t have to do everything your parents have always told you to do if you are old enough to live on your own.

That is where it was hard for me.  Going from my parents house where they did everything, to my own place when I got married, where I was in charge.  I had several migraines that first year because it was hard to handle the free thought.  I very much felt like the picture above, my head needs to stay where my parents want it but my life, and my psyche need to break away and be myself.  I finally think I have it down.  Only took near 10 years.

It is always a challenge to think for yourself and not let people control your thoughts.  You can do what you want to do.

Anyone else have thoughts? Comments are waiting below.

Justin

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Thanks for reading, A new story will be presented next week!

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