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How teaching my daughter to write is helping me.

I started my blog earlier this year as a way to kick start my writing career.  That has evolved a bit, but the main purpose is still writing.  Because of my writing, my daughter has shown some interest.

She was bored on a Sunday because we wont let them watch TV and asked me what to do.  I told her to write a story.  She played shy and was pretending that she couldn’t think of what to write about so I went back to some of my old lessons from elementary school about creative writing.

From that she has started a story and has had some ideas about others that she wants to write.   From these lessons, I have had to up my writing.  I have had to start thinking more about story structure and how to put scenes together.  I have always been a seat of the pants writer so this is getting into some different territory, even though I know what to do.

It continues to be a fun thing to do with her, get her to organize thoughts and ask questions of her character and her antagonist.  It is fun to see her think and then have to change something because it is too much like what was on Disney Channel yesterday.  We have had a plagarism talk as well.

I would suggest teaching someone how to craft a story if your writing is getting hard or a bit stale.  Show someone how to do it and you will gain a lot of insight yourself.  Besides it is a great way to interact with your kids that doesn’t involve the television, just their imagination.

I would love to hear your comments below!

-Justin

I Know Way Too Much About Dresses.

I was getting my 3 year old daughter dressed the other day and realized that I know way too much about dresses.  I am the man in this house and I shouldn’t know how to put dresses on little girls.  But I am a DAD and therefore, I put dresses on my daughters.

I am a little apprehensive about baby #4.  If it is a boy, we will lose all of the pretty dresses that we have amassed over the years.  I’ll admit, I am a sucker for dressing my daughters is pretty, frilly dresses.  It will be sad if it is a boy.  But welcome.  I want a boy.

I also realized that I know too much about dresses when one of my 3 year olds princess dresses was falling apart and I know how to fix it.  I have spent way too much time helping my wife sew dresses and quilts over the years.  I even understand most of the babble on Project Runway.

Not everyone needs to know that much about dresses.  If you have daughters you should know at least how to get them on and adjusted correctly.  Ask your wife, she should be able to help you.  And yes you can still be a man if you know how to pick out dresses.  Just wash your hands first, grease is hard to get out of chiffon.

Weigh in on the Situation???  Comments section awaits you below…

-Justin