I am sitting here today in a small conundrum. I had a post all ready to go about patriotism and teaching your kids pride in the country but I just couldn’t publish it today.
You see, the old cliche’s about how fast kids grow up is slapping me in the face like so many cold fish from that old Monty Python sketch. go ahead and watch it, it is only 15 seconds.
I have known for well, 10 years now that I someday will have a 10 year old. It was inevitable. Time doesn’t stop. I have been trying to talk about it a lot lately to get used to it. Today however, the big fish hit. We have been preparing for Leatha’s birthday party. Her first slumber party. Today is the day and it just hit me that my daughter is getting this close to being a teenager.
She is not too far away from driving and college. She is still 20 years away from a boyfriend though.;) I guess that having the new baby here is really putting some perspective on things. We now have all of our kids and the next babies that my wife and I will be playing with will be our grandkids. In 25 years or so. 😉
I know I am getting older, I finally don’t feel like a 14 year old kid most of the time, but I still don’t feel like 36. I have finally given up on all of the assorted BS that kept me somewhat repressed and timid for all of these years. I am only concerned with my immediate family now, everyone else is just there to bring gifts on holidays.
I know it has been said before and will be again, kids grow up fast. 10 years goes by like a flash, it seems like Leatha should be turning maybe 6, not 10. Enjoy every minute that you can with your family.
Being a Stay At Home Dad has afforded me several opportunities to watch my kids grow and develop in those intimate moments when they think no one is watching. It is a perspective that is very valuable towards finding great Christmas presents because I feel that I know my kids and their personalities fairly well.
Anyone can do it though. Watch your kids. Spend time with them. Throw a ball around with them in the yard. Let them help when you fix the toilet or patch the wall. My son is very excited about the new belt sander.
All in all, I wouldn’t trade any of it for the world. I love my family and cant wait to see what happens when we have that 18th birthday party.
Have a great Weekend, go do something fun with your family.